Luke 14 - 15 "You need not hate your family"
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READ: Luke 14-15.
Verses chosen for
meditation: Luke 14: 26-27.
26 “If anyone comes to me and does not hate father
and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters - yes, even their own life
- such a person cannot be my disciple. 27 And whoever
does not carry their cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.
REFLECT
Large crowd
followed Jesus when He walked this earth. (Luke 14:25). But Jesus was
looking for disciples. The demand of
discipleship by Jesus in Luke 14: 25-35 is often misunderstood. The crucial
tension from this demand lies in Jesus’ call that requires every disciple to hate
those whom He elsewhere commands us to love. Indeed, the demand to “hate” your
loved ones is a costly and uncomfortable one.
The mention “to carry your own cross” (v.27, cf Matt 16:24) probably
horrified Jesus’ listeners further as cross reminded them of Romans’ cruelty in punishment. But
this phrase somehow gets our attention as it emphasizes the seriousness of the
subject Jesus is teaching about.
To carefully measure the cost of following Him, Jesus gave two other stories
as in the building of a tower and going to war with another king. Jesus then asked,
“Won’t you first sit down and calculate the cost...?” (v. 28).
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So, to be His disciples,
does Jesus really mean for us to “hate” our loved ones? Jesus’ point was that we
are not called to literally hate our family but meant only in a comparative
sense. Rather, it is that we must choose Him over everything else. Furthermore,
Jesus gave emphasis to forsake (the idea “to say goodbye to”) everything that
are dearest to us (v. 26b, v.33).
Perhaps, let’s first try to understand the word “hate”. Interpreting
from OT account of Jacob, Rachel and Leah in Genesis 29, the word, “hated” (vv.
31, 33) can mean “unloved”. To be hated here is to be loved less than another. Another
sense of “hate” is also found in Exodus 20 (v.5), whereby God commanded Israel
not to have other gods and love them above Yahweh.
Inevitably, family duties can make many demands on a person that can distract
(cf. I Cor 7:29-35; married life’ responsibility) with discipleship. Jesus has
dealt with the matter of duty to family in Luke 9:57- 62. In this context, to “hate”
means “to love less than”. To be His disciples means that we have to love Jesus
more than family and everything else, with all our hearts, souls, mind and
strength.
Practically, it means for us to forsake any “competing loves”, be it hobbies,
possessions, or careers but re-prioritise our “loves”
for Jesus. Rather, it means for us to put priorities right. It means for us to put our hands to the plow, don’t’ look back (cf.
Luke 9:62) and be committed to pour ourselves out as a living sacrifice (cf. 2
Tim 4:6; Roams 12:1). All in all, Jesus must take centre stage and priority
above all else, at every season and every aspect of our lives.
Friends, Jesus was not looking like many today who do “Christian things” outwardly such as go to church, pray, sing Christian songs, etc but are not fully committed to Him (not denying that these Christian disciplines are unimportant). Contrary, Jesus wants unreserved commitment from us, like the commitment to complete the building of a tower (vv. 28-30). Above all, there is no contradiction in His "demand".
Certainly, it does cost something to be disciples of Jesus. But it costs
more to reject Him. In carrying our own cross daily, His Holy Spirit enables us
with divine strength to guide us when we have to choose between Jesus or other priorities.
REST
Lord Jesus, please help me to be Your disciple every day. In His Mighty Name, I
pray. Amen.
Vincent
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